Love Who?

There are many reasons why most may say to enjoy your 20’s and not commit to a full time relationship.

Let's get into it, Angelica Royo  is a blogger that reflects on important information to help young adults understand the meaning of living out their single life. One of the first reasons is “Freedom” having the ability to have their own control on their life. Most people in relationships have to converse about different decision that may come across their life, as in food, movies, money, trips and more. But having the option to

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make decision for yourself and no one else. Is a taste that many can't feel because of being in relationship with their significant other. There comes a time where an adult becomes independent and life is not for the weak and there will be a time where the mind and body has to learn to be strong. Life is full of challenges and many of those can truly define your strength and weakness. But the best part about it is having the ability to discovery them for yourself.  Think about a time when life was easy and maybe a parent or loved one made a decision for you. And the outcome was something that you did not expect, and think of the reaction that wanted to express. As a young child there are many lesson where the your adult self would not accept or appreciate someone making a decision on your life. So therefore when reaching an age independence This could have been something positive or negative and think about the outcome.

 Think about all the different results that can come from this, trust issue, headache, and heartbreak. Given the opportunity to take chances and discovering new talents and ability that could truly change someone life forever. This is not about being single forever but allow the mind, body and soul to discovery new life without having someone to lean on. Nothing is wrong with asking for help but the best ideas are place in those whom focus and practice on their personal craft.   Lea Rose Emery

 

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 Go back in time where you meet someone that you truly thought the future would be impossible without them. Now snap back to reality and ask yourself is that person still around? Answers will vary and those that had an experience where the outcome fall short; you are not alone. The best about having that time to fall short is the overall message is to understand everything on is very temporary. Love isn't something that one day disappear, but make sure to know that having a relationship is not the only way to show and share love. There are so many things on this earth that will love you and appreciate you without having to sacrifice your values. Single life is a time to learn more about yourself and understand what it feels like to be your best self. Relationship are not going anywhere and even no one know how long they will be on this earth. Therefore live each day with a purpose and to find a something new about the world around and the person that you see in the mirror.